16 December 2012
Sacred Sunday ~ Jesus IS the Word
1 In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
2 He was with God in the beginning.
3 Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made.
4 In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind.
5 The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.
~John 1 v 1-5
14 December 2012
Urgent Prayers: Sandy Hook Elementary
Please lift up the families, teachers,
staff, and students from Sandy Hook Elementary in CT.
No one can answer why
something like this happens.
No one can truly know how someone can be so far
gone to do this to another human let alone a child.
Please pray for peace,
forgiveness, empathy, love, and mercy to abound in this community as they
struggle through this tragedy!!!
Psalm 46 v 1 ~ "The Lord is [our] refuge and strength, and ever-present help in trouble."
1 Peter 5 v 7-11 ~ "7 Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.
12 December 2012
Fortress of Faith: Study Three- Foundation of Love
"1 If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only
a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can
fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move
mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the
poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I
gain nothing.
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” 1 Corinthians 13 v 1-13
In our first two studies, we spoke very generally of love being the foundation to our Fortress of Faith. However, what does that mean? As a woman in the military, as a Christian woman, are we truly living a life of love, or are we merely doing and saying what we think we should as a Christian?
This week we are going to discuss verse 4:
"4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud."
Fairly cut and dry. Think of someone in your life who you truly love- your significant other, your child, your sibling, your parent, your closest friend. It is easy to to be patient with that person, because you accept them regardless of their warts. It is easy to be kind to someone you know and love. It is easy to share in their successes. It is easy to humble yourself when you are around them and put them first. It is easy to temper your pride with facts of the matter because you know they can see the real you.
However, how do we put this into action in the Military? If you have never been exposed to women of different beliefs, values, and ideals before being involved with the military way of life, you certainly are now. These women come from all over the country, sometimes from all over the world. These women may look different, may act different, may even speak different- and yet, because they are also tied to the military in some way, they are our sisters.
Being patient and kind despite differences of opinion and perspective can be a hard task. This can be even harder if you are assigned in a chain of command where beliefs, values, and ideals clash roughly. However, as Christian women, doing our duty as military members and following orders, or supporting our spouses as they follow orders, it is more importantly our duty to be thoughtful of His Will with every step we take and every word that comes out of our mouths.
Today, it is the impatient and judgemental Christian that rip our churches and study groups apart pushing those that need His love in their lives away. By acting on patience and kindness as extensions of His love, we open doors to other women who need His love in their lives.
By tearing down those women we are jealous of- they were promoted and we were passed up, they have everything we have only dreamed of, they appear to have their lives all put together, we tear down the plan He has for us! Instead of being jealous, be excited for the woman who has met with success. Be enthusiastic for the woman who seems to have it all! Be encouraging to the woman who seems to have it all together. Just as those women have no real idea of the beauty of your soul, and have no idea what blessings and what struggles you live with, you have no idea of theirs. Envy only breaks down the potential to have a loving and respectful relationship with that woman.
Do not boast, and be not proud... Active Duty women will have a unique struggle with this. Being in the military, being eligible for promotion, forces military women to keep continual accounting of all the good things they have done. This in itself is not a bad thing. Yet, it causes us to walk to a fine line. When I joined, all evaluations were leadership led. By the time I left the military, the evaluations were individual led- leadership approved.
For me, writing my own bullets was really hard, while writing the evaluations for my troops was really easy. I would talk to friends about how they overcame writing their own evaluations, and the consensus was typical of what we see so much in society- "I did more than so and so- so I deserve________" There used to be pride in doing the task at hand to very best of one's ability. However, that pride in doing one's best has morphed into outdoing everyone else and making sure everyone knows it- although that may also mean a less quality product.
This is how boasting and pridefulness are dangerous. When we allow those things into our work ethic, they start to bleed into our character. Our pride needs to be in a strength outside ourselves. Our boasting needs to be in the love and faith we reside in, and in the unit and leadership who we are attached to. Our pride needs to be in our Lord, and in our presence in a military that He has brought us to.
Can you think of a situation where your impatience or lack of kindness could have pushed someone away? Do you have the opportunity to revisit with that person and see the situation from His eyes, and maybe change your perspective of how to interact with that person?
Can you think of someone you work with or come into contact with that you are jealous of? What things about that person causes you to feel jealous? In what ways can you turn that jealousy into love?
Is there anything in your career or personal life of which you are overly proud of? Are you balanced on the fine line of tempered pride, or are you tipping over to the boastful side?
Note: Removing pride from your life does not mean that you do not take credit for your work, or that you pay no attention to your beautiful characteristics that make you unique. A woman's psyche is built on a need to have a strong sense of self, to have a good self-esteem. The pride that this verse is discussing is that which builds yourself up while tearing others down- there is no love, certainly not His love, in that kind of pride.
May this week show you examples of love through patience and kindness! May He introduce women to you that you can practice this verse with. May He help you bite back your boastfulness and swallow your pride, that others can be lifted to His heart!
God bless!
~C. Borden
Related passages:
Psalm 37 v 1-9
Jeremiah 9 v 23-25
Colossians 3 v 11-13
Copyright © 2012 C.H.Borden
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” 1 Corinthians 13 v 1-13
In our first two studies, we spoke very generally of love being the foundation to our Fortress of Faith. However, what does that mean? As a woman in the military, as a Christian woman, are we truly living a life of love, or are we merely doing and saying what we think we should as a Christian?
This week we are going to discuss verse 4:
"4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud."
Fairly cut and dry. Think of someone in your life who you truly love- your significant other, your child, your sibling, your parent, your closest friend. It is easy to to be patient with that person, because you accept them regardless of their warts. It is easy to be kind to someone you know and love. It is easy to share in their successes. It is easy to humble yourself when you are around them and put them first. It is easy to temper your pride with facts of the matter because you know they can see the real you.
However, how do we put this into action in the Military? If you have never been exposed to women of different beliefs, values, and ideals before being involved with the military way of life, you certainly are now. These women come from all over the country, sometimes from all over the world. These women may look different, may act different, may even speak different- and yet, because they are also tied to the military in some way, they are our sisters.
Being patient and kind despite differences of opinion and perspective can be a hard task. This can be even harder if you are assigned in a chain of command where beliefs, values, and ideals clash roughly. However, as Christian women, doing our duty as military members and following orders, or supporting our spouses as they follow orders, it is more importantly our duty to be thoughtful of His Will with every step we take and every word that comes out of our mouths.
Today, it is the impatient and judgemental Christian that rip our churches and study groups apart pushing those that need His love in their lives away. By acting on patience and kindness as extensions of His love, we open doors to other women who need His love in their lives.
By tearing down those women we are jealous of- they were promoted and we were passed up, they have everything we have only dreamed of, they appear to have their lives all put together, we tear down the plan He has for us! Instead of being jealous, be excited for the woman who has met with success. Be enthusiastic for the woman who seems to have it all! Be encouraging to the woman who seems to have it all together. Just as those women have no real idea of the beauty of your soul, and have no idea what blessings and what struggles you live with, you have no idea of theirs. Envy only breaks down the potential to have a loving and respectful relationship with that woman.
Do not boast, and be not proud... Active Duty women will have a unique struggle with this. Being in the military, being eligible for promotion, forces military women to keep continual accounting of all the good things they have done. This in itself is not a bad thing. Yet, it causes us to walk to a fine line. When I joined, all evaluations were leadership led. By the time I left the military, the evaluations were individual led- leadership approved.
For me, writing my own bullets was really hard, while writing the evaluations for my troops was really easy. I would talk to friends about how they overcame writing their own evaluations, and the consensus was typical of what we see so much in society- "I did more than so and so- so I deserve________" There used to be pride in doing the task at hand to very best of one's ability. However, that pride in doing one's best has morphed into outdoing everyone else and making sure everyone knows it- although that may also mean a less quality product.
This is how boasting and pridefulness are dangerous. When we allow those things into our work ethic, they start to bleed into our character. Our pride needs to be in a strength outside ourselves. Our boasting needs to be in the love and faith we reside in, and in the unit and leadership who we are attached to. Our pride needs to be in our Lord, and in our presence in a military that He has brought us to.
Can you think of a situation where your impatience or lack of kindness could have pushed someone away? Do you have the opportunity to revisit with that person and see the situation from His eyes, and maybe change your perspective of how to interact with that person?
Can you think of someone you work with or come into contact with that you are jealous of? What things about that person causes you to feel jealous? In what ways can you turn that jealousy into love?
Is there anything in your career or personal life of which you are overly proud of? Are you balanced on the fine line of tempered pride, or are you tipping over to the boastful side?
Note: Removing pride from your life does not mean that you do not take credit for your work, or that you pay no attention to your beautiful characteristics that make you unique. A woman's psyche is built on a need to have a strong sense of self, to have a good self-esteem. The pride that this verse is discussing is that which builds yourself up while tearing others down- there is no love, certainly not His love, in that kind of pride.
May this week show you examples of love through patience and kindness! May He introduce women to you that you can practice this verse with. May He help you bite back your boastfulness and swallow your pride, that others can be lifted to His heart!
God bless!
~C. Borden
Related passages:
Psalm 37 v 1-9
Jeremiah 9 v 23-25
Colossians 3 v 11-13
Copyright © 2012 C.H.Borden
10 December 2012
Musical Monday
Music has always had an impact on our lives. It enhances our moods. It sometimes shapes our moods. It causes us to pour out our thoughts and feelings in singing along with a song that means something to us. Sometimes it causes our feet to move, our hands to clap, our bodies to sway in time with the rhythm that really does cut through our walls and touches our emotions.
Matthew 25 v 34-40 says:
34 “Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father; take your inheritance, the kingdom prepared for you since the creation of the world. 35 For I was hungry and you gave me something to eat, I was thirsty and you gave me something to drink, I was a stranger and you invited me in, 36 I needed clothes and you clothed me, I was sick and you looked after me, I was in prison and you came to visit me.’
37 “Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? 38 When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? 39 When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’
40 “The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’"
With Thanksgiving over and Christmas in our near future, we get caught up in making sure we show our families and friends how much we love and appreciate them with the little things we do for them and the special thought we put into choosing the perfect gift for them.
Yet, how much thought do we put into those men, women, and children in our communities and around the world, that we do not know? We have no tangible ties to them. Still, He calls us to LOVE them! He calls us to CREATE tangible ties! Who would ever give to a stranger and then forget about that person? When we love "the least of these," we are opening our hearts to them, we are showing them His love through us, and we are changing OUR own life!
Yet, how much thought do we put into those men, women, and children in our communities and around the world, that we do not know? We have no tangible ties to them. Still, He calls us to LOVE them! He calls us to CREATE tangible ties! Who would ever give to a stranger and then forget about that person? When we love "the least of these," we are opening our hearts to them, we are showing them His love through us, and we are changing OUR own life!
The following song was with a specific purpose in mind- to support a particular ministry. If you are interested in supporting that ministry, follow the links through the youtube account the video is attached to. However, do not be afraid to look at your base, at your chapel, at your community, at your church, or anywhere---if you become WILLING to create a tangible tie with a complete stranger to share His love, He will show you where He wants you to help.
Remember, giving to the 'least of these' is not always in the form of money. You creative gals can give a creation; you baking beauties can give a cake or cookies; you chef extraordinaires can make a casserole or your favorite dish; you book worms can read to children or seniors at the library! The opportunities to give are endless!
Remember, giving to the 'least of these' is not always in the form of money. You creative gals can give a creation; you baking beauties can give a cake or cookies; you chef extraordinaires can make a casserole or your favorite dish; you book worms can read to children or seniors at the library! The opportunities to give are endless!
I pray each of you has an amazing Monday and a blessed week gathered in His Arms!
09 December 2012
Sacred Sunday ~ Christ Foretold
"For to us a child is born,
to us a son is given,
and the government will be on his shoulders.
And he will be called
Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God,
Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
7 Of the greatness of his government and peace there will be no end.
He will reign on David’s throne
and over his kingdom,
establishing and upholding it
with justice and righteousness
from that time on and forever.
The zeal of the Lord Almighty
will accomplish this."
~Isaiah 9 v 6-7
"Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign: The virgin will be
with child and will give birth to a son, and will call him Immanuel. "
~Isaiah 7:14
"1 A shoot will come up from the stump of Jesse; from his roots a
Branch will bear fruit.
2 The Spirit of the LORD will rest on him-- the Spirit of wisdom
and of understanding, the Spirit of counsel and of power, the
Spirit of knowledge and of the fear of the LORD--
3 and he will delight in the fear of the LORD. He will not judge
by what he sees with his eyes, or decide by what he hears with his
ears;
4 but with righteousness he will judge the needy, with justice he
will give decisions for the poor of the earth. He will strike the
earth with the rod of his mouth; with the breath of his lips he
will slay the wicked.
5 Righteousness will be his belt and faithfulness the sash around
his waist."
~Isaiah 11:1-5
07 December 2012
In Remembrance of Pearl Harbor
December 7, 1941 is a day that will never be forgotten by our Nation and especially by our Service Men and Women. Today, we recall the shock of war. We remember the men and women who lost thier lives in the attack on Pearl Harbor and elsewhere across the Pacific as the Japan of that era took its leap forward to dominate. We remember the heroic sacrifices as men and women rose up to fight back, to help others, to sacrifice themselves in the slaughter of that morning.
Today, our Service Men and Women often find themselves in the midst of terror and war. They still choose to join. They still choose to stand up for what they believe in. They still choose to put our USA first and their own lives, their own families, their own dreams second. They still choose to sacrifice.
Today, we remember Pearl Harbor and our Armed Services for the sacrifices made and the sacrifices that are still being made.
God bless our American Heroes!
Today, our Service Men and Women often find themselves in the midst of terror and war. They still choose to join. They still choose to stand up for what they believe in. They still choose to put our USA first and their own lives, their own families, their own dreams second. They still choose to sacrifice.
Today, we remember Pearl Harbor and our Armed Services for the sacrifices made and the sacrifices that are still being made.
God bless our American Heroes!
04 December 2012
Fortress of Faith: Study Two- Foundation of Love
“1 If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” 1 Corinthians 13 v 1-13
In our first study, I spoke very generally of love being the foundation to our Fortress of Faith. However, what does that mean? As a woman in the military, as a Christian woman, am I truly living a life of love, or am I merely doing and saying what I think I should as a Christian?
This week we are going to discuss verses one through three:
“If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.” 1 Cor 13 v 1
We all know what it is like to be around someone playing a role, being insincere, saying what they think we want to hear. We can see them sucking up to their NCOIC, or to the Commander’s wife. We feel the strain on a conversation as they overplay their exuberance or abhorrence for whatever the topic may be. Yet, sometimes, Ladies, we do the very same thing in the name of our Faith.
Sunday mornings in Chapel, or Sunday School, or in Bible Study, we all want to be “good Christians.” We recite our various memorized prayers for the sake of saying them, but pay no attention to the words we are lifting up to Him. We praise Him with songs not taking the time to understand what we are saying to Him. We greet each other with hugs and kisses while secretly wishing we hadn’t come today because we have so much waiting at home. These are just examples- the way I have felt during my days of struggle in Active Duty, where I felt the fakeness rolling off of my fellow Christians when I attended Chapel or visited a local Church, and turned that inward and saw that fakeness in myself.
How I must have sounded to God? Singing praise that my heart was not in? Reciting a prayer, or bowing my head in prayer, not for an instant considering that in doing so I was supposed to be reciprocating the love He has shown me? I was not a joyful noise in His ear. I was an annoying clanging bell!
Yet how wonderful is His love for us that He still pulls us to Him? No matter where our heart is, His love never leaves us!
“If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing.” 1 Cor 13 v 2
We, Christian women, have incredible God-given gifts. My gift is the gift of written word. My parents would call it an inherent trait as I have been a writer all my life- I was always better at writing my thoughts than saying them. Only rarely have I used this gift to glorify Him, and even more rarely have I written from love. As my parents can attest, they best saw my writing skills when I was angry at them or hurt. I could write pages and pages of self-centered, egocentric blather based on my anger, on my hurt, on my struggles. I feel a huge insecurity when writing from feelings of happiness, joy, and love. Even now, I struggle with writing this blog, making sure that I write from love, joy, and hope.
What is your God-given gift, your talent? When you use that gift/talent, is it from a basis of love? In what ways can you pull His love into your gift so that others can see that love?
What really speaks to me is the second part of the verse that speaks of faith to move mountains, and yet without love, that faith is meaningless! What?! This means, that you can have faith in Christ, you can KNOW that He loves you, but if you do not also love, that faith is meaningless! Faith without love is a faith with no foundation.
“If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.” 1Cor 13 v 3
In 1999, I was in technical school for the Air Force. One evening a friend and I were taking a walk and discussing various different subjects- among them- faith. Now, this friend was an atheist. This friend was dear to me. We got along well. We confided in each other. We enjoyed each other’s company. There I was a brand new Airman, and a wary Christian, afraid of really sharing my faith with anyone, but still so sure that nothing could rock my faith. This friend did just that with one statement: “So, as a Christian, you believe that I will go to Hell because I do not believe the same as you.” I cried as I was forced to consider that someone I cared about was not someone I would see in Eternity. I cried as I wanted so badly to lie, to choose not to believe that portion of His Word, to pick and choose just the pretty messages so I could not offend my friend.
That moment started a quest to define my faith, to understand what makes up my faith. The result- Love, like our Lord has shown for us, is the foundation to our faith. Love reciprocated to our Lord helps our foundation stay strong. Love shown in our words, shown through our gifts and talents, and shown though our actions is what separates us.
As Military Women, we move around a lot. We meet other women from all aspects of life. Those women are of different cultures, different religions, and different places in their faith. We will especially find women of our own faith that differ from us greatly due to upbringing, denominations, varying levels of maturity in faith, different circumstances in their lives. We have unique opportunities to speak love, to show love through our talents, to minister with love through our actions.
This does not mean that we cower or hide.
Stand tall!
Rest in His love, lean on His promises, but in everything you do, do it with His love cementing the basis of your faith!
God bless you!!
~C. Borden
Copyright © 2012 C.H.Borden
Pardon me for repeating this video---It just perfectly retells 1 Corinthians 13 v 1-3. Enjoy!
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” 1 Corinthians 13 v 1-13
In our first study, I spoke very generally of love being the foundation to our Fortress of Faith. However, what does that mean? As a woman in the military, as a Christian woman, am I truly living a life of love, or am I merely doing and saying what I think I should as a Christian?
This week we are going to discuss verses one through three:
“If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.” 1 Cor 13 v 1
We all know what it is like to be around someone playing a role, being insincere, saying what they think we want to hear. We can see them sucking up to their NCOIC, or to the Commander’s wife. We feel the strain on a conversation as they overplay their exuberance or abhorrence for whatever the topic may be. Yet, sometimes, Ladies, we do the very same thing in the name of our Faith.
Sunday mornings in Chapel, or Sunday School, or in Bible Study, we all want to be “good Christians.” We recite our various memorized prayers for the sake of saying them, but pay no attention to the words we are lifting up to Him. We praise Him with songs not taking the time to understand what we are saying to Him. We greet each other with hugs and kisses while secretly wishing we hadn’t come today because we have so much waiting at home. These are just examples- the way I have felt during my days of struggle in Active Duty, where I felt the fakeness rolling off of my fellow Christians when I attended Chapel or visited a local Church, and turned that inward and saw that fakeness in myself.
How I must have sounded to God? Singing praise that my heart was not in? Reciting a prayer, or bowing my head in prayer, not for an instant considering that in doing so I was supposed to be reciprocating the love He has shown me? I was not a joyful noise in His ear. I was an annoying clanging bell!
Yet how wonderful is His love for us that He still pulls us to Him? No matter where our heart is, His love never leaves us!
“If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing.” 1 Cor 13 v 2
We, Christian women, have incredible God-given gifts. My gift is the gift of written word. My parents would call it an inherent trait as I have been a writer all my life- I was always better at writing my thoughts than saying them. Only rarely have I used this gift to glorify Him, and even more rarely have I written from love. As my parents can attest, they best saw my writing skills when I was angry at them or hurt. I could write pages and pages of self-centered, egocentric blather based on my anger, on my hurt, on my struggles. I feel a huge insecurity when writing from feelings of happiness, joy, and love. Even now, I struggle with writing this blog, making sure that I write from love, joy, and hope.
What is your God-given gift, your talent? When you use that gift/talent, is it from a basis of love? In what ways can you pull His love into your gift so that others can see that love?
What really speaks to me is the second part of the verse that speaks of faith to move mountains, and yet without love, that faith is meaningless! What?! This means, that you can have faith in Christ, you can KNOW that He loves you, but if you do not also love, that faith is meaningless! Faith without love is a faith with no foundation.
“If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.” 1Cor 13 v 3
In 1999, I was in technical school for the Air Force. One evening a friend and I were taking a walk and discussing various different subjects- among them- faith. Now, this friend was an atheist. This friend was dear to me. We got along well. We confided in each other. We enjoyed each other’s company. There I was a brand new Airman, and a wary Christian, afraid of really sharing my faith with anyone, but still so sure that nothing could rock my faith. This friend did just that with one statement: “So, as a Christian, you believe that I will go to Hell because I do not believe the same as you.” I cried as I was forced to consider that someone I cared about was not someone I would see in Eternity. I cried as I wanted so badly to lie, to choose not to believe that portion of His Word, to pick and choose just the pretty messages so I could not offend my friend.
That moment started a quest to define my faith, to understand what makes up my faith. The result- Love, like our Lord has shown for us, is the foundation to our faith. Love reciprocated to our Lord helps our foundation stay strong. Love shown in our words, shown through our gifts and talents, and shown though our actions is what separates us.
As Military Women, we move around a lot. We meet other women from all aspects of life. Those women are of different cultures, different religions, and different places in their faith. We will especially find women of our own faith that differ from us greatly due to upbringing, denominations, varying levels of maturity in faith, different circumstances in their lives. We have unique opportunities to speak love, to show love through our talents, to minister with love through our actions.
This does not mean that we cower or hide.
Stand tall!
Rest in His love, lean on His promises, but in everything you do, do it with His love cementing the basis of your faith!
God bless you!!
~C. Borden
Copyright © 2012 C.H.Borden
Pardon me for repeating this video---It just perfectly retells 1 Corinthians 13 v 1-3. Enjoy!
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